My ex has only had them for 1 extra day over the holidays (they stay with him on alternate weekends). He has been on 2 holidays this year with his step son and wife.
I suppose I should be grateful that he sees my 3 kids regularly and pays the maintenance but it really makes me angry that he doesn't bother with them in the school holidays. He never even has them any extra at Christmas.
I've been unwell all summer with a thyroid and back problem too but there is no point telling him that as it wouldn't make him help out any more.
I'm so glad they are going back to school next week. I'm stressed and knackered.