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To still get annoyed at ex?

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villagelife92 · 28/08/2012 13:09

My ex sees our DD every wednesday for a couple of hours, he's not allowed any longer and it has to be supervised. He has known this since the birth of DD (who is now 6mo) and for a few weeks this went ok, however when he found out i was starting to see someone else he refused to see DD for six weeks. Eventually, after much nagging he started contact again, however he's meant to see her tomorrow but hasn't sorted out someone to supervise (the centre he normally goes to is closed this week). This was meant to be to see how he copes out of a formal contact setting and with a family member/ friend supervising.
I sent him a text to ask what the plan was for tomorrow and he said he hasn't sorted anything.
I'm so pissed off. He kicked up a massive fuss a couple of weeks ago saying two hours wasn't long enough etc but when he's given the chance he doesn't bother.
Basically my aibu question is to still get so worked up and pissed off with him?

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sheragim6 · 28/08/2012 13:20

it seems you both didn't cope with new situation.but remmember you have i child who needs you, both love.so dont be confuse give him more time sometimes or even always men need more time to cope!!!
but anythings that you do is for your little one!!be patient!1

NoobytheWaspSlayer · 28/08/2012 13:23

YANBU, he needs to get his thumb out, especially if he's kicking up a fuss about getting more contact.

men need more time to cope? bollocks Hmm

SoHHKB · 28/08/2012 14:08

Don't beat yourself up for getting annoyed at him - I have an ex situation that according to my mother could be far worse and I still need a good rant even after just 5 minutes of contact Wink
But yes, do all you can to grit your teeth and support your dd's relationship with her dad - you are a better person for it Smile

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