D(huh)P has recently started a new job and has casually mentioned organising leaving drinks with his old colleagues. All vague, no dates.
I received my rota for next week and told him my shifts. He kicks off because one of the nights I'm working is the night he'd planned to go out.
I said 'sorry' meaning I was sorry it had worked out that way. He accuses me of being inflexible, not willing to change my plans for.him and not caring like a normal human 
I told him I wasn't going to be made to be the bad guy. He's now huffing upstairs, hasn't come down for dinner and has barely spoken to DD 
Who is in the wrong? I need the MN jury's consensus.