DH has a 'beard' and moustache, 11 week old hates it. She visibly winches when he kisses her, and sometimes it makes her cry. He has 5 days off work soon. I've asked him to shave to see if she prefers him kissing her without the scratchy hairs on her skin. He's refused, saying that it's part of him. I think that he should shave it as it will grow back. Am I being unreasonable? He's said that he just won't kiss her. I think he's being a twat.