my family

[petloe]

hello i am about to get married with my partner of 20 years and my own family as in siblings dont talk to any of us until they want something all seperated never was like that my self never looked for anything love my mom and dad forever what to do love all my siblings but they do not get on with one another only with me when they are looking for something also do not want to upset anyone but its our wedding day love them but

... what's the question?

Erm.....flips coin yabu

Umm.....punctuation will help me understand your post better

You are being so totally and utterly U it's indescribeable.

Whats's the question? Is it who to invite to the wedding and how to make sure the day goes nicely? If so YANBU to only invite who you want at your wedding.

Erm, yes?

I don't understand the question, I'm sorry

You and your partner have been together for 20 years? Just go for it, do what you want to do.

So you're getting married soon. Your sisters and brothers don't talk to you unless they want something. You love your mum and dad, you also love your siblings but they don't like each other.
Are you not sure whether to invite them all or just the select few you get on with best?