Ds1 is 3.5 yrs and at the age where he doesn't always need an afternoon nap but still needs some down time. Usually we turn on a bit of telly and I bf ds2. Recently tho ds2 has become a really distracted feeder / sleeper and won't go off for his sleep unless he's in a quiet dark room. Sometimes ive taken ds1 upstairs and left ds2 watching tv buti havent felt great about him having unsupervised access to the kitchen. Today I decided to give ds1 the iPad (parental locks on) and put him in his room while I fed ds2 to sleep then I had a bit of me time (40 mins). Ds2 was happy as Larry playing cut the rope/ his telling the time game and ABC go but a part of me feels I've committed some huge parenting sin - have I?