by expecting to have some

[nickster1978]

Sleep? I gave birth to Lo number 5 four weeks ago. She is ebf and a very hungry baby especially at night meaning I am getting very little sleep. Oh had been off work for four weeks and goes back Monday. AIBU for expecting to be able to have some rest when LO is asleep in the day because when I do attempt this oh follows me and stands staring at me from the side of the bed and moans that he wants to spend time with me.

Tell him to do one! He's at the back of the line when it comes to getting your attention! It will ease up though. Congratulations!

Tell him to sod off and get some sleep! Once he's at work it'll be easier and you can do as you please rest up. Congratulations on your baby!

Congratulations!

But seriously, number 5? He knows the deal, he's being a Dick.

Get him to sit and "keep you company" whenever you're feeding LO, at least at night. Then he'll have lots of time to spend with you and maybe just start to realise that you're maybe a little bit tired.

I'd tell him to piss off - you have a newborn and as alpinepony has put, he should know how tired and stressful it can be in the early weeks/months seeing as it is your fifth.

I like bumperllas idea, every time you get up wake him too so he can spend time with you

I'm also really not that bothered about him sticking his cock into my back when i'm in the kitchen - unless he let's me sleep while he's doing it......

Will try that tonight. It sounds like fun x