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Smoking in school grounds.

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MaryPorter · 25/05/2012 00:12

I was waiting to collect DC from pre-school, was 5-10 mins early and there were a few other parents also waiting. One parent got up, moved away from where we were waiting and lit up a fag. I was Shock because

1 - It was right in the middle of the school grounds.

2 - Said parent then moved to stand outside the reception doors where the P1 and P2 children come out. Finished his fag then flicked it on the ground.

Anyway I said nothing. Then today they did it again. I'm not that comfortable with saying something directly. WIBU to mention to staff or should I just keep my mouth shut? There's only a few weeks left of the school year anyway.

Feel like I want to point out I'm not an anti-smoking lobbyist. Just that I don't think its an appropriate place to smoke.

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lollilou · 25/05/2012 13:13

I'm a smoker and I don't smoke in my house or car (even when dc's aren't there) I would never smoke in the school grounds. If this guy does it again either say something yourself or mention it to someone in school.

Floggingmolly · 25/05/2012 13:20

Missingmum, why do you think it's inappropriate to smoke in the grounds of a school, but acceptable in the grounds of a hospital?

Sidge · 25/05/2012 13:25

I would inform the Head (of the school, preschool, whatever) so they can tell this person that he cannot and should not smoke on school grounds.

I was waiting outside classrooms once after sports day to collect the children and told a parent she shouldn't light her cigarette as the school grounds are non-smoking. She said "but we're outside!". Fuckwit.

lollilou · 25/05/2012 13:35

Haven't they banned smoking in hospital grounds too now? It is slightly different, the less our kids see adults smoking the less they will want to do it I hope. (hypocritical of me I know!) That's why I think the smoking ban is a good idea hopefully smoking will be seen as uncool and something only oldies do.

IAmNotACowbag · 25/05/2012 13:39

There are smoking shelters within hospital grounds still.

MaryPorter · 25/05/2012 16:31

Well, today I was running late and they had actually already dropped their dc at nursery and then sat down on the stairs to smoke! There's a huge grass bank and wall they can sit on outside the gates.

So I asked staff what the smoking policy was on school grounds, there are no signs up cos I checked. She wasn't sure and said she would check. AFAIK all LA sites are no smoking.

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AmberLeaf · 25/05/2012 16:52

My local hospital is non smoking in buildings and grounds.

A member of staff seen smoking would be in trouble.

A member of the public who is visiting possibly staying with a dying relative, or who has just been told bad news will smoke outside- I dare you to go and tell them not to smoke.

1944girl · 25/05/2012 19:23

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missingmumxox · 26/05/2012 02:42

flogging no i don't! but it is a wide open space and so no risk to anyone, and you appear to have missed my irony,

clue car

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