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I AM being unreasonable

37 replies

Getableedinggrip · 14/04/2012 12:57

I'd go so far as to say I'm such an awful creature today that if I wasn't me I'd kick my arse.

I'm knocked up, overdue, constipated, sick, hurting everywhere and I'm taking it out on everyone around me.

So far today I have been rude and insulting and passive aggressive. Then I cry tears of pity and self loathing.

I am so fucking unreasonable.

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doormat · 14/04/2012 12:59

at least you have identified your own problem lol ..hope everything goes well x

bagelmonkey · 14/04/2012 13:00

You can't help it, it's hormones!

fussbucket · 14/04/2012 13:00

Feel better for venting?
Here's some Chocolate for now and some Wine for whenever you finally get a chance to be allowed to drink it.

mrsnesbit · 14/04/2012 13:00

yabu......sneaks away and avoid flying cup that grippy throws at me
Grin

pictish · 14/04/2012 13:00

Get everyone else to go away for about three hours while you rest.

Getableedinggrip · 14/04/2012 13:06

Do you ever act in a way you KNOW is wankerish but feel unable to stop? That's what I'm like today. And I've made someone else feel bad because of my own twattish behaviour.

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ReindeerBollocks · 14/04/2012 13:10

Pregnant and overdue - I remember being a right miserable cow. It's uncomfortable and not nice at all. Add hormones and it's just not nice.

Have lots of Brew and chocolates, you're not being unreasonable at all. Hopefully it won't last much longer and then you get to deal with post partum hormones which will make you cry even more! But at least you'll have a lovely baby to snuggle with.

pjmama · 14/04/2012 13:12

I think this is one of those times in your life when you're entitled to be as unreasonable as you like. X

takingiteasy · 14/04/2012 14:05

I'm with you there getableedinggrip and I'm not even over due yet, but whale like and in a lot of pain.

rhondajean · 14/04/2012 14:14

I get like this with pms sometimes and i know I'm doing it but i just can't stop it.

Keep focusing on that baby ( and get a curry tonight!)

Doesmybumlookbiginthiss · 14/04/2012 14:22

Apologise to the person you were a twat to and move on.

nickelhasababy · 14/04/2012 14:38

yanbu.
Grin

sorry you're in such a foul mood.

bobbledunk · 14/04/2012 15:09

You can't be unreasonable because it's not you, it's your hormonesSmile

Rezolution · 14/04/2012 15:11

Just chill out and get as comfy as you can Thanks

RandomMess · 14/04/2012 15:12

Get the constipated sorted, it will help improve your mood (a little)

Getableedinggrip · 14/04/2012 15:22

Oh don't be so nice to me. I need flagellating!

I was vile to someone in a shop.
They didn't deserve it.
Big brave woman that I am Blush

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Mrsjay · 14/04/2012 15:25

you are uncomfortable fed up with being over due of course you are being unreasonable but its allowed , when im pmty i am vile and unreasonable to the point i dont speak to anybody for 2 days , but to only answer yes or no , I tend to hide away with my venom Grin

Whatmeworry · 14/04/2012 15:28

YANBU to BU ... now get some humungous but sexy Turk to give you a damn good flagellation :o

Getableedinggrip · 14/04/2012 15:32

Where can I get this Turk?

Maybe all I really need is a good seeing to is some attention..

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Cherriesarelovely · 14/04/2012 15:55

Yes OP I do act like that, i was like that for much of last week and I have no such excuses! You have my great sympathies, being overdue is enough of a PITA without the other discomforts!

nickelhasababy · 14/04/2012 16:04

ooh, what did you say/do?
tell all

we can't possibly judge unless we know what you did!
Grin

Getableedinggrip · 14/04/2012 16:12

I told the man in Boots he was a big useless twat because he wouldn't change a tens machine without a receipt. Then I said he should watch it as I was a member of the parenting club...

You can't make me hate me anymore that I already do.

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nickelhasababy · 14/04/2012 16:15
Shock

did you not say "can't you see I'm very heavily pregnant " ?

you should have done.
and cried in front of him.

you were rude, but he was ruder, because he's the shop assistant and you're the heavily pregnant woman.

fussbucket · 14/04/2012 16:17

Oh bugger. I don't suppose there's another Boots in your town you can use until the mortification's died down?

Getableedinggrip · 14/04/2012 16:21

No- the nearest other Boots is twenty minutes drive away or a dreadful bus journey Blush

And I hate Superdrug. Because of that She's So Love-eh-lee song.

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