to be lying in bed and leaving DH to it?

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Ok so hit me with both barrels I know you will.

I am in the very early days of pregnancy with my fourth child. I have 3DCs 10,7 and 3. Dh works a 50 hour week and usually gets home at 7. But today he was able to get home at 5.30. AIBU to have left him to cook dinner and sort out the Dcs while I lie in bed?

Oh and not intending to move until at leat littliest is in bed.

So long as he knows you appreciate it and you don't take the piss YANBU. Enjoy!

I find the first four months of pgcy much tougher than the rest - even the very end. I felt like utter shit early on in my pgcys. Yanbu.

What would be taking the piss? feeling guilty

I could sleep for the uk (new olympic sport) at the moment, resisting shut eye right now as I won't sleep tonight.

Dunno - probably when you start demanding he peels you grapes as well. If he's anything like my DH, if it was a problem he'd soon tell you. Enjoy the fact you have a lovely chap.

YANBU!

Yanbu if you need alittle sleep he is more than capable of doing tea for the dc and put them to bed

Take it easy and rest I dont see anything wrong with the childrens dad doing what he is doing , it has nowt to do with how many hours he works , I hope you feel better soon

I can hear DD3 (3) giving him grief. Shes off to bed now.

the first trimester is murder with the tiredness alone. never mind the nausea, spottiness, aching boobs, etc.

YANBU, i'm sure you've looked after the children and made him his dinner while he relaxes/recovers from illness... and i know pg isn't an illness, but it sure as hell feels like one at times. esp in first few months.

he made them too, why shouldnt he do his part if you are tired.

I can hearing him reading to DD, ahh bless hes's a goodun.