to wonder why

[babygsmummy]

'friend' expects me to listen to her problems,but when I need her shes gone for weeks.she sent a text saying hi how are you my heads up arse,feeling abit pissed off I think.....you should be me for a few weeks(lots of issues not in my control anyway on top of it now,so whatever),so left it for abit thinking Im not going to indulge you like I usually do.Then received another text saying could really do with a friend right now!!!!

I know her problems are caused by her own stupidty and I already know that they are man based due to the fact shes seeing a married man,which she knows I disagree with.Should I just ignore her because shes not a real friend is she??? I feel like I need to tell her shes pissed me off though,argh....

I think you answered your own question when you put "friend"

YANBU. I've had a friend like that and i'm so fed up i barely speak to her anymore. if she's being blatantly selfish and only concerned about her own needs she isn't a true friend. tell her you're pissed off and why. but be prepared for the fact she might not want to change.

Send one back saying "Yeah me too, x, y and z are happening at the moment, any chance you could spare a shoulder for a couple of hours?

Then stand back and try not to choke on the dust you can't see her for...