Not so much of an AIBU, not sure where else to post. Going to a family party next week, no children going, we have asked DS's nursery teacher to babysit him (4yo)& DS (10mo) while we are at the party.Probaby from 7pm until 12.30ish. Have asked her how much we are to pay her and she is being quite blase, oh dont worry we can sort that out later. Not to sure what the going rate is?? WWYD?