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With DH

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AttillaTheMum · 04/02/2012 11:59

We were discussing where to take the DDs and were stuck in ideas. We went round in circles for ages and eventually DH said "if you want we can take them to the farm then but I won't enjoy it" I think this was really wrong to say AIBU?

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GypsyMoth · 04/02/2012 12:04

Why was it wrong?? Dies everything have to have your children's approval?

squeakytoy · 04/02/2012 12:06

Why shouldnt he be honest. Surely a family day out should be fun for ALL the family.

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AttillaTheMum · 04/02/2012 12:07

If he said "I don't want to go " we wont have but saying I'll go but I won't enjoy it is IMO wierd

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BluddyMoFo · 04/02/2012 12:09

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GypsyMoth · 04/02/2012 12:10

Do are you going?

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AttillaTheMum · 04/02/2012 12:10

That's exactly it bluddy. I felt he was being a martyr

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GypsyMoth · 04/02/2012 12:10

*so!

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AttillaTheMum · 04/02/2012 12:10

No we aren't going

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FredFredGeorge · 04/02/2012 12:10

What should he have said? If he's not going to enjoy something he shouldn't lie and pretend to you that he will - he would be U if when you all went he just moped and grumped the whole day rather than trying his best. But telling you, he'd be unreasonable to say otherwise.

BluddyMoFo · 04/02/2012 12:12

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RunnyGrobbles · 04/02/2012 12:12

Uh he could have tried to enjoyed it FredFredGeorge?

It is free time spent with his family, presumably the people he loves the best.

BluddyMoFo · 04/02/2012 12:13

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AttillaTheMum · 04/02/2012 12:19

We still haven't decided! Grin

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ChaoticAngel · 04/02/2012 12:36

The more mature thing to say would have been 'I don't want to go to the farm because of x. We need to find somewhere that we all want to go.'

TopazMortmain · 04/02/2012 12:38

Mine would have got short shrift. What is he, 6?

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