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Or Hormonal or is DP just a nob !

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salempickles · 09/01/2012 21:48

Im currently 4 months pregnant, was a stone overweight to start with but have only put on approx 4-5 pounds so far.

Tonight were watching the one show with bloody davina mcCall, they show a picture of her pulling a weird face and i said ha ha do you want me to walk round like that (meaning pulling a funny face), his reply was well you were in tip top condition when i met you and thought id meant would you like me to look as super skinny as her, cue the silent treament from me and have come upstairs to have a cry, hes apologised and i know hes meant it as a joke as hes not in any way malicious but to have said that to someone who was already self conscious to start with and is only going to get bigger for the next few months, i cant help think hes just a total nob who needs to think before he speaks, im probably being hormonal and stupid and will be fine in the morning but right now i feel so upset, as if hes told me what he really thinks or something...

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mynewpassion · 09/01/2012 22:33

He should've been tactful.

PurplePidjin · 09/01/2012 22:36

As a one off remark, it sounds like he's picked up an acute case of Foot In Mouth disease.

If he makes regular digs thats a completely different matter...

IUseTooMuchKitchenRoll · 09/01/2012 22:38

Sometimes peoples mouths engage before their brains. It's understandable that you were upset, but he has apologised and it doesn't sound like he meant it as a criticism.

Try and accept his apology. If you are unhappy with your weight, you can try and lose your extra stone after you have had the baby. Now isn't the time to worry about it, and it seems like your dh knows that.

flamegirl77 · 10/01/2012 00:11

A stone isn't too much! Well to look at, maybe not to lose.Smile I'm sure he didn't mean to hurt your feelings. Try to let it go and don't let it stress you out. Yes you will get bigger but I bet you will look gorgeous with your bump.

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