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blondmagnet · 18/12/2011 00:33

Im 17 weeks pregnant with no2 and my hubby has just told me he no longer wants me. He says I was always a mongrel on the outside but a beautiful person inside but now I'm mining on both. He then said roll on wife number 2, no I mean 1 because you don't even count. He's now saying I've to keep quiet until baby is here then we'll take it from there. I'm in bits, have no family or friends to talk to and am getting bullied at work just now. Please someone tell me it'll get better because I'm 3 foot from the edge.

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Xales · 18/12/2011 16:24

You have survived your family, you will survive work and this man.

Don't keep quiet about this until your baby is born! That is another 20+ weeks away!

That will fuck you mentally! Then you will have to deal with a separation!

Then you will also be fragile and emotional, tired, completely knackered with 2 children. So much so that you may not be able to fight as hard as you would for what you are entitled to out of this marriage.

Get the ball rolling now. Go and see a solicitor and see where you stand. Get all the support from the GP and anyone else you can.

In 20 weeks it may well still hurt but you will be 20 weeks further down the path not just starting!

You don't have to do anything this man says. You no longer even have to consider him in your plans!

It looks better for him and who ever he moves on to that he didn't dump his pregnant wife (which is what he has just done) don't let him get away with it!

What a bastard!

Good luck.

rhondajean · 18/12/2011 16:33

Oh sweetheart, I almost always can see both sides of stories on here, I see the good in everyone, but thats a step too far.

And its him not you. You take care. And dont follow his instructions about keeping quiet.

runningwilde · 18/12/2011 19:35

I really hope someone cam give you some good advice or ideas where to get support and help. Do you have any other family members who can help? X

runningwilde · 20/12/2011 19:45

Are you ok OP? Please let us know how you are. Is there anyone who can advise this lady? So worried about her.

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