I work a few hours a week to a charity i think is worthwhile and does good , helping families in trouble , today i met somebody who uses the charity and was pleading poverty last week and we gave them some items they needed for them and the children , today they were laden with xmas shopping and were telling me their kids will be getting X YZ for xmas , now im not saying her kids dont deserve christmas I just think she is taking advantage of a charity , AIBU to just give up as im now dissaluisoned with the whole thing , this isnt the first time ive come across this , not sure what i want people to say just need a whinge really .