christmas nightmare. My mum puts loads of pressure on Christmas must be prefect kids must be so excited presents by the bucket load family together etc etc. The actual story is I wish it was a bit more relaxed, my brother is bringing wife a dc over from Singapore arrives Tuesday Christmas week. I don't really get on with my brother he is very moody and I haven't spoken to hIm for months nOt that I haven't tried he doesn't reply to emails. Is it reasonable for us to arrive christmas eve I've got 3 small kids and travelling from north down south. Mum making me feel bad not getting there before but I think Friday will be a nightmare to travel. She thinks my dh should have fri off and we should all come then we are staying still da after boxing day is that enough?