Firstly because the xmas card she wrote she has already shortened my 6 week old babys name. It's a beautiful name 'Jessica' and she wrote my boys names in full and then put 'jess'. To be fair she's generally irritating anyway at moment. I upgraded phone to iphone4 (free upgrade) and whe she sawy new phone she went out next day to upgrade hers and called me to say "I've got a better phone the 4s." I don't really care if she has a better phone etc but her mentality is annoying.