To think DH's facebook status update is a bit twattish

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He put one of those "1 in 4 people have mental illness. Look at your 3 friends, if they are ok it must be you" statuses on this morning.

I know it's not a big thing in the scheme of things but it has really wound me up!! I had PND after having DS1 (2 years ago) and have got family members who have had depression in the past. DH knows all this and is normally quite supportive, his status has just really shocked me!

I text him saying "well done for mocking mental illness on facebook" and he has now deleted the status but not texted me back or anything.

AIBU??

I think you're over reacting a little.

Hopefully, he is waiting to have a proper discussion with you about it, when you see one another (rather than texting and risking making you more angry/upset). At least he deleted the status.

I think you are over reacting a little too, I have BPD and can see the humour in the status, although it's not something I'd post myself.

TBH he probably doesn't even see you as having had a mental illness, I know my own dh doesn't see it with me.

i think you've probably overreacted abit, it's an old joke and he probably didn't realise it would upset you so much. At least he deleted it, and will hopefully come home with an apology

He thought it was funny.

You didn't.

You told him.

He deleted it.

No problem.

Well, some people are more tactful than others.

lol its really quite amusing

You're completely over reacting tbh.

He thought it was funny, so do I really and I have/ do suffer from depression and an anxiety disorder.

It is a bit of a twattish status thing, but also you are over-reacting a bit. Understandably over-reacting, though. He could have thought it through a bit.

YABU

I Have BPD and i find it funny