To be cross at DP for not reporting an assault?

[Christiola]

Today at work DP was kicked in the groin by a female colleague for having blonde eyebrows. He's refusing to report the incident saying he doesn't want to make a fuss, lose friendship, she was just playing, people will turn against him etc etc but I really think he should report her. He's still in a lot of pain and recently had a hernia operation which makes it even worse.

AIBU to feel quite cross at him over this? I know my first feeling should be sympathy but he's so soft it frustrates me so much :(

Sorry, that doesn't sound like a reason to kick someone - there has to be more than this.

Is that really the whole story? Blond eyebrows?

no that was it apparantly. He was giggling because she'd been picked out for a presentation (everyone was giggling) but she kicked him because of his eyebrows.

Sorry what exactly did he say?

What the actual fuck?

Blonde eyebrows my arse. I can't fathom this at all

So it was in front of a load if people?

How very odd.

YANBU to want him to report it, but really it's up to him. Maybe he doesn't want to report it because that is not actually what happened.

Have I read thus right?

OP - are you taking the piss? Insulting the collective intelligence of MN? I suggest you find out what the real story is here and then come back. Right now you just look like a shit-stirring loon.

HTH

Nah.

this is what he told me, why on earth would he lie??

Why on earth would someone care what colour his eyebrows are?

Well they wouldn't would they oakmaiden - it's just too unbelievable for words.

Actually, I can see why this could be true...mum at school has strawberry blonde eyelashes...I often want to kick her in the crotch

You don't know the wierdos he works with

Maybe he got kicked for inappropriate behaviour that he embarrassed to own up to ?

I can think of 100 potential reasons and blonde eyebrows do not feature in any of them?

Was it your DP who had his glasses stolen the other night?

It was! Yours was the OP about your DH getting bullied all the time!

Are they children? Giggling because she was choosen to do a presentation, kick in the crotch?

everyone was giggling because she got picked for a presentation and her response was to kick him for having blonde eyebrows?

OKaaaaayyyyyyy

Looks for connection

nope can't see it

looks for biscuit

here it is

SO what did the boss do about this kicking woman?

Erm.

Yes he gets a lot of hassle at work. I just wish he'd stick up for himself. It;s always me having to do it for him