WANT A BABY SO MUCH IT HURTS

[mattsmadmum]

41 with 9yr old and 12mth old dh dead but happy to use donor as did with last one but would have to use a new donor, can support all of us and we are much more settled now but should i?
have v strong support network in place and just love being pregant its backbreaking with 2 and full time job but i love it so much
any advice?

I can't see why not if you can afford to support the family and you have good family support.

'Love being pregnant' makes me wonder about your motives.

And if you are swamped with two dc and FT job (I work FT so am not judging)... I'd think very, very carefully.

I want leopard print ankle boots so much it hurts. Doesn't mean I get them.

There's no advice to give.

If you want it, it doesn't matter how unreasonable I think you might be, or how reasonable, you will get it, or you'll decide not to.

This is an alien concept to me personally, but I am lucky. I can't begin to comprehend your situation, but if you want something so badly and its achievable WITHOUT having a negative affect on your other children, then you need to follow your heart don't you? Or accept your lot and enjoy what you have? No one can tell you which is right. All I can say is that I hope you find peace.

Do you want an actual child or just enjoy being pregnant?

Arf @ bettycash - you and me both!