To think mil has lost the plot?

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I am 32 weeks pregnant and mil lives one hour drive away. Dh and I have offered to visit her to help her look for a new pc. Dh mentioned that I may have to use the loo after being in the car for an hour and mil has said that I cant use the loo in the house because the house is u tidy so can use the one in the converted garage instead ie the one full of cobwebs and spiders. WTF?!

I swear I have been toilet trained for several years now.

AIBU to feel a bit miffed? Should I put a potty in our garden shed for when she visits?

So your not allowed in the house at all? or did I get that wrong? Just stay at home

She's weird.

Fact is, she had poo on her toilet. Too much poo to be even vaguely acceptable.

She was embarrased in from of you, but not your dh, who she knows will love her anyway.

Well if you can't go in the house to use the loo what is going to happen when baby is here? 'Please bring the newborn into the garage, the house is far too untidy'

I would suggest dh does some sleuthing in the house to check if she has everything is under control in there tbh, she may be hoarding newspapers and cats from the 70's and a used bubblegum collection because she has lost her sweet mind is not coping.