For quite some time now, I've observed that when I create a thoughtful, considered, and eloquent response to an OP, I'll then read through the thread before posting and find that Hecate has posted exactly what I wanted to say but much better. Then I'm left with nothing to say but
"I agree with Hecate"
or
"What Hecate said"
I've also observed that quite a few other MN'ers encounter the same phenomenon.
As a time saving device, I feel that I can just use IAWH as my standard response to any and all MNet questions.
But I wonder if I could save further time and brain power in my life outside Mumsnet by deferring judgement to Hecate as well. Perhaps a T-shirt or placard that says "Go Ask Hecate" will leave me free to watch daytime TV whilst sipping fruity beverages.