to keep fantasising about sleeping with my boss?

[cantbelieveimtypingthis]

This is ridiculous. He is 10 years older than me, has a wife and 2 kids. I am married with a toddler. happily married- I just really fancy my boss! In reality i wouldn't do anything about it and don't want to do anything about it but I wish i could stop thinking about it as even that is making me feel guilty.

Even typing this out is making me cringe... arghh! please tell me this isnt that weird?

Doesnt everone have these sort of famtasies?

i am very happily married, have never and would never cheat on my husband...but of course you have your thoughts, day dreams and sexual fantasies. You are human. Just keep them in your head and try not to act like a weirdo around him

YABU.

But I am basing this on my boss who ever so slightly gives me the creeps!

Tanya your last line of advice is brilliant

Just dont call his name when with dh, a fantasy never hurt anyone.

ha ha ha phew and thanks Tanya! oh my god i was starting to feel a bit disloyal and almost like i was cheating!

and lol re acting normal- note to self, must try and stop going red when he talks to me!

lol! I used to have dreams about an old boss and then act like a blushing teenage fool around him the next day, so I speak from experience.

Just remember - nobody knows what goes on inside your head but you

onemore think i can manage to keep the name thing in check :)

god am so relieved- thought you were all going to say i was a home-wrecking bitch!

I used to really fancy a colleague.

He was gay, very camp, very gorgeous and I adored him

good point re in my head... must also try not to get drunk at work drinks and tell people, havent done but its the kind of thing i would do!

well unless you are able to be supercool, he may well have picked up on it already.
In which case you'll be in deep shit because it all gets a bit awkward and everything becomes really 'meaningful', which can be REALLY tedious. Been there, done that...avoid like the fucking plague, if you want my advice!