To refuse sex with DP because

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He hasn't showered or washed since the weekend. His boxers are sweaty, he smells a bit whiffy and he's all greasy. I do not know why he won't wash.

Yuk yuk yuk. YANBU. Bath first and a good scrub. Sex as a reward maybe? :)

YADNBU.

Lock him in the garden and hose him down.

YANBU if he smells bad. DH seems to think its ok to go god knows how long in between showers/baths i normally just tell him that im in the mood but he has to go shower first - he is normally showering quick as a flash.

His boxers are sweaty! Hasn't he even changed?

Ewww YANBU!

Heinous p---phew.
Awful.

Why is there not a disgusted face emoticon on MN? There is a pressing need for one.

Oh, YANBU, btw.

Have you found out why he's soap dodging?

Grim. My DH wouldn't want to do anything dirty if he was dirty IYSWIM!

OP - has anyone suggested that you have a Napoleon complex recently?
Maybe he's taken it the wrong way...

YADNBU

My disgusting Ex H once came back from a walking weekend, hadnt washed for 3 days and shoved his stinking cheesy cock into my mouth the moment he got home. I threw up instantly. Men are so disgusting sometimes!

Why are some men like this?
I recently found out that my brother doesn't change his pants more that 3 times a week!!!!! I mean. For Gods sake, we were brought up together and I know he had clean pants on daily then...what the hell has happened to him?!! I wouldn't dream of not wearing clean underwear every day.

Why is he not washing himself? Has he always been a slob or has something changed?

Also...YADNBU OP.