Will people please stop saying 'Boxroom' to posters who can't help being a bit thick, passive and desperate or at least people who are being thoroughly mugged by cocklodgers? That doesn't make them Boxroom. Boxroom has specific, for want of a better word, fetishes or aspects of its story that appear every time (either because they are founded in the truth or because they have this fetishistic significance to the poster): the 'difficult' DSD, wieght issues, hoarding, incontinence.
As you were.
Oh and I'm off out now so will read repllies when I get back.