Well, I took on board that maybe I was BU and a bit precious.
Today I was outside when dog poo man walked by, with his dog. I thought "oh bum, this is going to be awkward" but he said "Don't worry, I've learned my lesson, no more poo in your bin!" and so I said "I might have overreacted there, sorry, but I was just a bit grossed out by dog poo" and he said "No worries, I won't do it again".
So I feel all pleased.
Isn't it nice when people are nice?