To think P is an absoloute arsehole?

[TheLadyEvenstar]

I say P as we are over, although he has not moved out yet.

He wakes me this morning at 7.45 to tell me DS1 is not up for school, so I call him.

I doze in bed with DS2 for a further 8ish minutes.

He comes back to my bedroom and says

"Babe" giggle giggle "has eaten your new glasses, I saw her bring them in to the living room" But obviously didn't fucking stop her chewing them did he?

He then went out.

I have made an appt to have eyes tested and get new specs but AIBU to think if you see a puppy carrying a pair of glasses you take them off her not let her chew them and then when they are ruined takee them off her.

DS1 told me when P left "Mum, he stood looking at her until I said about it then he took them off her"

this is just one of many things lately

Yep absolute arsehole. Hope he fucks off soon and you can get a fresh start!

he was meant to be going this week but had an accident last week and now has a dislocated shoulder. FFS why do I have to have a nice side.

his dislocated shoulder is no concern of yours. if you're over, then it is not relevant to your life.
would you let a complete stranger live in your house because they had a bad arm?

the only difference would be that you might have the kids if he was meant to be looking after them, but you have no duty of care towards him.

Ishoos - sounds like he has no respect for anyone. Idiot!

poor puppy could have cut his mouth or swallowed the glass

that would have been expensive (speaks from bitter experience)

Ohh, she could have easily!!

I understand she chews everything atm shoes clothes, toys you name it if she can get her teeth into it she'll chew it.

BUT he was a total prick. and is still being so, knowing I had a dentist appt at 10.45 he went to his Drs appt at 8.30am and is still not back, so have cancelled appt for myself.

I had to as DS2 won't sit still long enough for me to have any work done.

On glasses front I have an appt tomorrow.