to go back onto contraception

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i get paronoid every month that i am pregnant, i have already done 4 test this month even though it psychological.

my DH has had the snip, so there is really no need apart from paranoia

Are you sure some sort of counselling wouldn't serve you better?

Talk it through with your DH otherwise if you do and he finds out without you telling him he could jump to conclusions! I know I would.

Were you happy about him having the snip? It sounds tbh as if there's a part of you that wants to be pregnant?

of course i will discuss it with DH.

i am just need something to stop this paranoia

i 100% don't want no more babies, i sometimes gets a little broody, but that only when playing with my nephew

If it makes you feel better, I see no harm. Would agree that talking over your paranoia could be handy too. Hope you're feeling more confident soon.

i think it has put me totally off sex

No, you're not being unreasonable. We've been chatting about possibility of dh getting the snip recently and I already cant imagine being completely comfortable having unprotected sex - I think I'd be like this too - dh only has to show me his willy and Im pregnant. Thats probably why.

Not sure what to suggest really but just to say I can understand.

Totally NBU, I've had same paranoia in past whilst on the pill and DH ended up having to wear condoms