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to think DH is so stupid

11 replies

whatajoker · 27/06/2011 18:51

he spends hardly any time with the dc -he says 'theyre babies' - like thats a good reason to get away with it

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Lorenz · 27/06/2011 18:52

Are they babies? how old are they?

StealthPolarBear · 27/06/2011 18:55

I don't understand
Do you think he should spend more time with them? If he is spending as little time as he can with them and you think he's stupid because of that then I agree

whatajoker · 27/06/2011 18:56

yeah as little as possible, two under two! hes an absolute dickhead

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kaid100 · 27/06/2011 19:08

Well, my two girls are babies and I spend loads of time with them for that reason... they won't be babies forever so why miss out?

fedupofnamechanging · 27/06/2011 19:14

This does beg the question of why you had a second baby with someone who spent little time with the first?

kaid100 · 27/06/2011 19:17

karmabeliever... she never specified that they were from different pregnancies.

fedupofnamechanging · 27/06/2011 19:22

Sorry, didn't think they might be twins Blush

whackamole · 27/06/2011 19:56

I think he will regret it later on. But, some people just aren't 'baby' people and prefer older children they can actually play with.

Although you sound really angry about it, is this the only thing that is bothering you about him?

meltedchocolate · 27/06/2011 20:03

YUBU if he just doesn't know what to do with a baby aside from the nappy changing/ bottle feeding (if you bottle feed). Some people seriously don't know what to do with them except watch them lie there.

If he is just not interested then YANBU

EricNorthmansMistress · 27/06/2011 20:41

Yep, he sounds like a dickhead. Who actively avoids spending time with their children - whatever age they are? OP do you want to talk?

fuzzpig · 27/06/2011 20:43

That's really sad :( sounds like there's more to it...

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