DH is currentley fishing lastnight/all day today.... We went out with All of his family on Friday (day offwork) so have been really busy this weekend
Post came yesterday and its a bloody rail ticket return to visit his father in auguest.... app he has arrange to go up there for a weekend (his step mum is comming down to pick him up) he keeps putting on the calender 'work do's' etc and never seems to be bloddy here... we have a 6yr old and twin 2yr olds.
I did mention we would all go as a family to vist FIL (has plenty of room for us) but they said no as the kids might be a bit trying.... I get NO help with the kids from my family or his its pretty much me & them 24/7 ht eonly peace i get is when they are asleep AIBU to expect DH to be around if only to read the kids a bedtime story or change a nappy? we also dont have much money at the minute and his little jaunt up north is costing us £100+ he has also said he intends to join a fishing lake so he can 'go when the kids are in bed' (another £100+) so i get to spend the whole day with the kids.... he will spend 1/2 hour with them & help put them to bed.. if he's not on his phone then fuck off for the evening leaving me alone :(
He thinks IABU as he dosnt see this as a problem..... as its good for him to 'get away..... I am half tempted to dump his stuff and tell him just to fuck off he can be away as much as he wants then!