Dp picked dd up from after school club, as he is a poppet. Dd refused to get on the bike carrier to go home. He has made her walk for over an hour and twenty minutes, and they are still going. He will not let me go and get her in the car "because she will have won." She had a late night last night so is tired and ratty, I don't get why he didn't just put her on the bike and go. AIBU to get in the car and overrule him?