ahhhhh!!!

[knittedbreast]

shit. i just asked my best friend ive ever had from years ago if she really still wants contact anymore.

wish i hadnt now.

I take it she said 'no'?

Why? I mean - why did you have to ask that? Have you drifted apart? Not seen 'em for ages?

no she said "bless you" and changed the subject.

oh well.

Eh? So you were actually talking when you asked?
Do you think that 'bless you' could have meant 'shut up and stop being so needy'?

What made you ask the question? Also, I think the fact that she didn't really answer it probably says more than "yes" or "no" would have.

Is this making any sense to anyone? Please help me understand.

Sod her if your friend can't answer you a simple question then sod them, we can always go Xmas decoration shopping together :)

oops
I'd leave it up to her to contact you next time
if she's truly a good friend she'll not be put off by your neediness and understand you're going through a rough time (I take it you are?)