how do i deal with jealousy

[AuntiePickleBottom]

i try and spend time with my children 1-1, but this is not always possible.

as ds is in school i do have alot of 1-1 with my dd, and she goes to bed earlier than ds so i get at least 1 hour 1-1 with him a day.

but there are alway fighting for my attention when i spend time with them together...even though they are both getting it.

It's absolutely normal sibling behaviour. Trying to remember how I dealt with it, I think I just focused on positive behaviour, e.g. when they were playing nicely together or sharing well.