Yesterday I had a colonscopy at hospital which is an intrusive procedure and I was not allowed to eat anything for 28 hrs prior to the appointment.I also had to take moviprep which basically insures that the bowl is empty. As I was going to be sedated my DH had to accompany me so he could drive home etc. Anyway as I was getting my coat on to go to the hosp DH was getting out the ironing board to iron a shirt to wear to the hosp. I have to say I freaked out a bit because we both had loads of time prior to this ( I had also spent the morning organising food for everyone 3dc, dh and granny) there was no need to be so disorganised. We ended up having a massive row and he deems me the unreasonable one. AIBU to expect him to be ready and organised for me?