So totally fed up with both partner and pfb...

[catnao]

can I divorce them?

You have to give us more to go on.....

So - I have a relationship in which we both work full time - except ALL HOLIDAY I have been a 50s housewife. Went out for London day trip with friends, had a lovely time - Got home today and partner and son have TRASHED the place - washing strewn from baskets, everything mixed up, BRAND NEW COOKER cooked on (fine) but left dirty etc etc... Partner says "I Had a really good time with the kids" (Three of which kids aren't ours and wouldn't dream of trashing their own houses)!! And breathe....

So go to bed, leave it for him to clear up.

AND then got when I objected to the hideous mess, "God, Catnao, you're so uptight!"

I 2nd Squeaky his mess he cleans it up.

Don't stress! LEave him to clean it up

Well, ahem, I have cleaned up. But now we are not speaking. Very childish, I know.

I am still furious!! Have to let go, I know!