To be panicking so much - I probably am

[TheLadyEvenstar]

Because DS2 needs a haircut but has lovely ringlets/curls which I want to keep.

I feel your pain! I know that day will come with ds. Never did with dd, just let them grow .

ATM his hair is past his shoulders, he doesn't want it cut nor do I but at the very least it needs a trim.

WIBU to take him to an uptown expensive hairdressers?

I know this may be hard but if possible can you not give daddy the honour of taking him for his first haircut. My husband was like a dog with two tails the days he took his lads to get their first big boy cuts. Also if you make it a family tradition for the lads to go with the men to the barbers it can be a bonding experience for them.

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sorry but he wants to have it all cut off I am looking to have it trimmed.