Hi. I've got my 36 year old brother staying with me for the time being & i'm finding it quite hard to deal with. He acts so bloody childish & I don't see why I have to put up with it. He calls my 10mo ds 'ginge, bratskull & dopey' & he comes out with racist comments. I've already asked him to stop & he laughed it off, & I was talking to my mother about it yesterday. She basically laughed it off & told me i've got to put up with it. aibu to not want it around my son? If I wouldn't put with it from anybo