Took dds (2 & 4) to soft play today, one I'd never been to before, paid £4 for them to play but left after 10 mins as there were teenagers and parents in there sprinting around and knocking smaller kids over.
There was also a dad in the ball pit set aside for babies with about six older kids (probably about 8-10 yo) having a ball fight that looked pretty violent, definitely could not have put 2 yo dd in there.
Finally left when I heard dd2 crying, so I went in to get her to find get crying in a corner, had to carry her out as she was so scared.
Dd1 didn't seem to mind it too much, but when I put dd2 to bed tonight, she told me 'soft play scary mummy'.
I dint think iabu but am interested in what others would have done.