I work shifts. Dh took a job working shifts inc the possibility of nights/late shifts.
I warned him that I may have to leave my job (I only work p/t) as we have to small children who need stability and bedtime routines. Not to mention the fact that it's always my family left to do 90% of the babysitting.
He was not at all happy and basically turned into prize twat of the year, telling me I didn't want to work, I have never wanted to work, I am a lazy bitch. I have worked pretty much all the time since I was 15. But that is not what the AIBU is about. I know IANBU on that score.
He has managed to get away with it until now. I am at work tonight and he has been asked to work overtime (until 10pm).
He is in a raging mood that I won't pester my family to look after our children until 10:30pm tonight (from 11am). Now my Gran is almost 70 and normally goes out on a Tuesday night, my sister is heavily pregnant. My other sister works on a Tuesday night, my mum has to get up for work at 5:45am on Wed morning.
We need 'the cowie' apparently. WTF is 'cowie'???? And why should I expect my family to drop everything? Not to mention the fact the girls are back at school on Thurs and I want them back into routine.