If you cannot control ur oggling so that your partner doesn't notice, then u r insensitive and not very clever.
Here's a world wide solution to it, started in Perth Australia, which gives the power BACK to all the pissed off women out there, whatever country they come from.
Every time another womans partner checks me out, ( by this I mean, in a way that makes me notice that he's looking at me), I walk right up to her and hand her a little business card which says;
"please let your partner know that he is disrespecting me and more importantly, yourself, by clearly checking out my body when it's clear that he is not single; he only makes himself look tragic and pathetic"
Without respect, trust cannot exist.
Can I tell u that once a guy receives afew of these, oggling takes on a whole new perspective.
You can also hand ur own guy a card which explains why u are walking away so that he can oggle in peace.
:)