to angry when dh doesn't let me know he'll be late?

[knackered76]

He's not back from work. He didn't say he'd be late and he's not answering his phone. I don't care if he goes out but it would be nice to know so that I don't think he's lying in a ditch somewhere. Am very but could also be being hormonal (pregnant with 3rd) and unreasonable !

yanbu

Yes he is being rude and disrespectful. I suggest you put the bolt across and go to bed.

Sweet Jeebus YANBU! Not.....at.....ALL.

He's being an inconsiderate fuck-knuckle.

When should he have been home?

Half an hour late = fair enough

4 hours late = a bloody phone call would have been appreciated.

Thank you, feel much justified in my righteous anger now ! We don't have a bolt but I might set a trap so when he comes in the door he'll fall over, bang his head and hopefully knock some sense into himself :)

Grrrrrrrr, god he annoys me sometimes!!!!

He's normally home around 7ish except apparently for tonight when he's decided to disappear!

Don't let him make you feel you are being a nag bag either

YANBU at all!

Go to bed :)

YANBU. He is being very inconsiderate. It irritates me so much that it is so often fathers who get away with this and the mother has to stay home. How would he feel if you just went AWOL one evening? Maybe you should try it and see?!

or Maybe I should....