to post this here rahter than on FB?

[Ladyanonymous]

I work, I provide, I do the best I can do for my kids, I never ever use babysitters or childcare, I never ask for more than I get, I don't take the piss in anything, I accomodate everyone the best way I can, I say nothing ever - so why hate me and make my life so hard all the time. Why moan about "babysittting" your own kids? Why send solicitors letters and call the police all the time? Why threaten me with taking away the kids maintenance? Why threaten to not see the kids? I am so frustrated and at the end of my tether.

ARGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you.

Your ex?

okay

there's more to this than the OP

are you seperated? going through divorce? why are the police/solicitors involved?

YANBU.....where else can you get anonymous,unqualified,sympathetic advice?
Certainly not on FB.
No one 'Babysits' their own kids.
You look after your own kids.
It's what you are supposed to do.
You sound like you are doing your best.....well done you!

Yes my ex.

Take a trawl through my previous posts if you can be bothered and want to be completely depressed.

I can't do this anymore.

I feel defeated.

I've spent the last 45 minutes or so looking (swiftly) through your threads; I've seen you have/had a DP in the forces, who has kids, and that you yourself are a single mum to 3. It's not an exhaustive trawl, and much more might be a bit stalkerish; but if your problems right now are with the father of your DC perhaps you need to stand up for yourself a bit more? I don't mean that in a nasty way, from what I've read you're more than reasonable, and very understanding, and I know how that leads to always putting yourself down last, so I wonder.... ?