To expect bf to spend some time with me?

[Flojo1979]

My bf of about 8 months, used to be really attentive now he spends all his time at his mums along with his brother, they sit there chatting all the time, i dont go cos i've got my kids from EX to look after, is it wrong to feel jealous that he spends more time with them (ie 5 or 6 days a wk) and much less time with me (ie 1 or 2 days a wk) ?

get rid

Good heavens dump him. At this stage he should be keen as mustard and unable to leave you alone. If things have gone stale already then you have absolutely no future.

I know i should but with two kids in tow is there any hope of finding a better guy.

You'd rather have this guy than no guy? Come on, have some self-respect.

No guy is MILES better than wasting your life fretting over some no-hoper

Get yerself some self-respect

What do you do when your children go to ex for access visits - do you go running/reading/times with friends and family/coffee shop + glossy mag

Or get a baby sitter and do an evening class

Don't bother with Mr Right Now, get a life of your own

x posts

Thanx I guess I am lacking in self esteem right now but thats given me the kick i need to try turn it around

[tough love]

good luck

everyone seems quick to judge this guy, its a shame no one speaks up for him. Maybe his side of the story is different, the old saying goes "there are 3 sides to a story yours,mine and the truth"
so instead of being biased give this guy a second thought before you judge him xxx