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AIBU?

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To prune my friends on FB

23 replies

DarrellRivers · 19/07/2010 21:44

Now only have 20

Will I have hurt feelings or will no-one have noticed?

AIBU?

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porcamiseria · 19/07/2010 21:46

i did that and 2 have tried to be my friend again!!!!!

daftpunk · 19/07/2010 21:47

yanbu...i only have about 20...all people who really interest me...i just laugh when i see people with 500 "friends"

scottishmummy · 19/07/2010 21:48

have no idea,but love the imagery.secateurs anyone

SloanyPony · 19/07/2010 21:49

YANBU unless you announced that you were about to have a cull as a facebook status update, and then later another status update saying "if you are still here, you are okay for now".

I have a "friend" who keeps doing that.

slushy · 19/07/2010 21:56

sloanypony perhaps it is time your friends list was pruned by one .

CapitalText · 19/07/2010 21:58

YABU if you've recently been chatting with them. They'll wonder if they've offended you.

DarrellRivers · 19/07/2010 21:58

SP, was so tempted to post a status similar to this thread
Then thought it might be in bad taste
'You survived'

SM, have been throwing all old stuff away in house and have been cutting shrubs in the garden
Am in the mood

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DarrellRivers · 19/07/2010 22:06

CT, I suspect no-one will notice

I had to rein in my nosy nature, I love having a look at people I barely know from school's photos of their balding DH with a paunch less than perfect figure

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valleyqueen · 19/07/2010 22:12

YANBU I have deleted quite a few recently. Two for blatant racism, one old school friend for ignoring me in Morrisons when I said Hello to her and a load more because of the complete and utter crap they come out with on there.

ivykaty44 · 19/07/2010 22:14

one of my fb friends has culled his fb account by 3900 friends...I oticed this morning his note that if we could read it we were friends or he wants to get jiggey - I am the wrong sex for him though so I must be a friend

valleyqueen · 19/07/2010 22:17

3900! How does he know so many people?

daftpunk · 19/07/2010 22:17

One of my friends deleted me....i was gutted for about 5 minutes until i realized she'd been boring the arse of me for yrs....

Eskarina · 19/07/2010 22:18

Not U at all. I did the same last night! I also created a category of "restricted" friends, who won't see all my status updates and general drivel. Very liberating. I wouldn't dream of telling people this though!

ivykaty44 · 19/07/2010 22:19

I have no idea VQ -but some of the men are/were very lush...but I know they are not into girls!!

sheenbeen · 19/07/2010 22:22

desperately wants to prune my mother from my FB friends but I know she would notice {hmm}

DarrellRivers · 19/07/2010 22:23

Been discouraging my mother from FB for years
She would love it

What is this 'restricted friends'
Maybe I could have been less savage?

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CapitalText · 19/07/2010 22:24

They might be wondering what they've done wrong though, "valleyqueen*. Maybe your friend in Morrisons didn't recognise you or hear you?

daftpunk · 19/07/2010 22:28

oh lordy my typos....

That's true CT...my friend emailed me explaining why she was deleting me.....

I suppose it depends how friendly you'd been as to whether explanations are necessary..

xstitch · 19/07/2010 22:29

I cut 3 'friends' who had a conversation via wall to wall about how I was a nutter and no wonder XH left me. I also blocked them.

sheenbeen · 19/07/2010 22:30

stupidly Darrell, my sister and I were the ones who encouraged her as at 75 she's pretty nifty with a PC and she can keep in touch with relatives & friends abroad.....we didn't think through the consequences of having her comment on everything we post {hmm}

WoTmania · 19/07/2010 22:35

YANBU - I want to do this but am too nosy so keep them as friends and look through their photos

DarrellRivers · 19/07/2010 22:36

Am slightly regretting harshness of cull now
Oh so rash

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valleyqueen · 19/07/2010 22:36

capitalText the racist ones I told them why I was deleting them and as for the woman in Morrisons I just have the opinion that if you don't really know me well enough to recognise me then you don't need to be on my fb, she definitely heard me say hello.

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