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12 weeks sober

13 replies

Touty · 29/03/2024 22:35

I am 12 weeks sober.

Feeling much better in myself. Anxiety improved. I find it easier to keep the weight off. I’ve also spent less money. It’s not been easy but definitely worth it.

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LizardOfOz · 29/03/2024 22:36

Well done 😊💖

sunshineandshowers40 · 29/03/2024 22:37

Well done! 😊

I'm just starting (day 6). What has helped?

Compash · 29/03/2024 22:41

Great stuff! 👍

Touty · 29/03/2024 22:52

sunshineandshowers40 · 29/03/2024 22:37

Well done! 😊

I'm just starting (day 6). What has helped?

@sunshineandshowers40 thank you.

Fear I suppose was the main driver, it got to the point that I put myself in dangerous situations. I had a rock bottom moment in new year when i drank too much had an argument with OH, tried to walk home legless only to fall and pass out at the side of a road. OH found me thankfulky but he was so shocked and afraid when he found me lying there.

So I had no choice really. I’ve tried to moderate before and in the beginning it works ok but I soon fall back into the habit of binge drinking.

what has worked for me is staying away from Bars. As the weeks have gone by I realized that instead of drinking because of boredom or low mood I just had to let the cravings pass.

i also came to realize that I would never be free from anxiety or low mood whilst continuing to drink.

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Onewildandpreciouslife · 30/03/2024 07:29

Amazing work @Touty ! And I promise it just keeps getting better.

Candleabra · 30/03/2024 07:52

Well done, you’re starting to see the rewards and benefits of a sober life. It doesn’t have to be a boring life! You have so much more time now to do exciting things.

3BellyProblem · 30/03/2024 07:57

Best thing you’ll ever do. I’m 4 years sober now and I never miss it. Life is so much better.

Huge congratulations on 12 weeks! 90 days is a big turning point for a lot of people. You’ve made the commitment. Amazing!

HoldingMyselfAccountable · 30/03/2024 20:12

12 weeks for me also. Congratulations!

Icantbedoingwithit · 30/03/2024 20:14

Well done! Not easy but absolutely worth it! Be very proud of yourself!

iamyourequal · 30/03/2024 20:25

Congratulations @Touty that is a fabulous achievement. Keep on going!

mindutopia · 31/03/2024 22:16

Well done! Around 12 weeks was a real turning point for me.

thisisasurvivor · 31/03/2024 22:32

Day three here

Well done op
It takes a lot to do this

Hope I can follow your lead 🙌🙌🙌

Touty · 01/04/2024 18:08

mindutopia · 31/03/2024 22:16

Well done! Around 12 weeks was a real turning point for me.

Thanks , I’m starting to feel the same, I hope it lasts 🤞

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