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What you do miss about children being young

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Ifyouknewmeyouwoudlikeme · 22/08/2023 20:47

Now mine are getting older I find I miss the following:

  • the playground, I use to find it a bit monotonous but now they're too old and I see a good one and I miss it funnily enough
  • being up and out early morning for a day out, mine surface late morning - although I like not having interrupted sleep!
  • days out themed for small children - so many things for Christmas which sound magical but not for us anymore
  • feeding the ducks - I still feed them sometimes with leftover bread, feel like I'm becoming one of those middle-aged women (maybe they were mourning their children growing up!)
  • Just them wanting to be with you, now mine choose to stay at home and I will go out on my own.

Don't get me wrong, older children bring a lot of joy and different fun but I'm just surprised by how I'm suddenly out of the young children phase (went so fast) and how I miss some things which we did all the time (and got bored at times) and then you one day find you don't and you miss it!

OP posts:
Lagershandy · 22/08/2023 20:58

I always remember watching my son reading his favourite comic by himself, when we had previously read it together. That and not holding my hand once he got older.

ssd · 22/08/2023 21:04

Is this is the right section op?

MintJulia · 22/08/2023 21:14

Occasional co-sleeping when DS was little, and the smell of his hair.

He's a teenager now, taller than me.

Theborder · 22/08/2023 21:16

Honestly? I don’t miss it. The only thing I do miss is having smaller worried about them. Bigger kids, bigger worries. But no, other than that I was happy to move on.

Theborder · 22/08/2023 21:17

Worries

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