my husband binge drinks.
not all the time, this year maybe 5 times, last year maybe 10 times, but when he does he is either annoyingly argumentative, mean or just a passed out lump on the kitchen floor, or a liability at a party as he (nto at every party, but sometimes he gets virtually legless)
we've been together 26 years but i have no tolerance for this now and each time it happens, i feel that i am very close to calling this a day. i love him otherwise, we have had and do have a good life together.
i dont know what's normal anymore. is this level of drinking as it's not massivaely frequent, normal??