DH long history of high alcohol consumption. He admitted to being an alcoholic some years ago, got help and returned to his old self. History is now repeating itself. He is completely in denial however came a cropper a few days ago when after I accused him of drink driving, low and behold the police arrived to arrest him for this exact thing. I have recently an a big operation so was unaware of all of this until I heard a car pull off the driveway looked out the window and saw it was the police. He said that someone had reported him and were following this up. He said that he tested him and he was fine, when I asked if he showed positive for any, he replied rather curtly 'it was fine. He blatantly looked drunk though. Email to inclusion found later that day asking for help? Further email received from them yesterday however all record of contact has now been deleted?? Why would you not just admit you have a problem again given the history and why delete the emails as of he does not want me to see them??? Blatantly been drinking again today.
I have tried Al anon but found it was really not my cup of tea.