Sponsor broke anonymity

[totoromama]

I've been sober for 4 months. Doing AA thinking I'm getting a bit better. I've just found out my sponsor has been calling and msg my husband about what I tell her. Wtf

She's also being speaking about me to others. I'm her first sponsor but she's been telling people about my history etc. She wants me to cry a lot and be more emotional but that's never been me drunk or sober.

Congratulations on your 4 months! Can you report her behaviour to her sponsor? She has so strongly violated your trust and an AA code! Dump her and move on.

What happened with this OP? @totoromama

Have you got a new sponsor?

Well done on your sobriety, I am very early days.

That's bang out of order. She violated the very first rule of AA! I know the rooms I'm in would be seething about that.

for you OP. What a horrible betrayal of trust.